Thursday, February 26, 2015


"God is in her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day." Psalm 46;5

Our daughter Kendall has had a really interesting life. Sparing you with all the crazy details, I'll just say she's been confronted one too many times in life, even in her short nine years, with countless opportunities to fear the unknown and expect the worst. Opportunities that we see in looking back that were meant to stifle her and literally suck the life right out of her. 

Time and time again, albeit slowly, we've watched her resiliently bounce back and give situations and life in general a kick in the face. 

Kendall is our only girl. Our princess if you will. but really less Disney and more warrior. While she is the second born and has three brothers I'm beginning to think of her more as she grows older and matures as the gentle giant. Now, she's pretty teeny...although as tall as our oldest, on the inside, she stands high. 

She's always been pretty laid back, peaceful, and chosen her words wisely. Seldom does she  really speaks out of turn, unless she's ready or considers it absolutely necessary. Boy, has she taught me a lot. Being in the house with three boys isn't always the easiest and they know just how to bring the 'best' out of her. 

I always saw some of these traits as weaknesses instead of strengths in her until a couple of years ago when God totally began to convict my heart and show me a different side of my daughter, 

I would catch myself correcting her or giving her suggestions about 'how' to say certain things or how to respond to situations but it never failed-each time I would hear the a small voice prompt me to reevaluate my actions and thoughts. I was encouraged that this was just how God made her yet I hadn't fully grasped all that meant. 

Over the past few months as I've began to allow God to free me in areas of my own life that I've struggled with for some time, my eyes and my heart have truly become open to the amazing treasures we have in the gift of our children. Not only that, we get to watch the destiny of four hearts unfold right in front of our eyes. 

Are there times when we want to hold on and allow fear to control our words, our actions? Absolutely. But, I'll say this...

Our Kendall doesn't fit into a box. Not one. Not even the most uniquely shaped and formed one. 
Somewhere in this parenting thing we (I've realized) have to reach a point where we don't want any boxes for our kiddos. And, if God says, there'll perhaps be no boxes at all. In the case of Kendall, I'm totally okay with that now. 

I love who she is becoming in spite of all of my silly direction from time to time. I know that God is in control and since He's known her way longer than I have I can trust Him with HER life, our boys' and mine as well. God is within her, indeed. I am trusting Him to catch her each and every time she falls. His arms are so much bigger than mine, anyhow.


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Wednesday, February 25, 2015

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ADVENTURE | A New Look and Heart for Restoration House

Hey guys! 

Well, you've probably already noticed a small change around here and I am SO excited to announce not only a new look but a whole new brand coming your way over the next couple of months. 

In the following weeks, I will continue to make changes to the blog and what Restoration House offers to you as readers altogether. Here are some things you can look forward to in the future:

- More style and inspiration posts from me and new contributors on the blog
- Structured encouraging and inspirational series to help you overcome the obstacles in life that may
   be hindering you from becoming all that you've been called to be
- Occassional food shares and recipes for a healthy lifestyle 
- Entertainment and hospitality styling/inspirational tips and tutorials for the home
- Guest posts from bloggers you know and love
- Lots and lots of laughs and fun as we, together, learn how to live beautifully from the inside, out! 

So, what do you think? Are you ready to take on this new adventure with me? I am really excited about all the things ahead and even more thrilled to take this on with each of you! I just know you're going to love some of the things we have in store! And I must say, that I am excited to watch some real dreams I've had for a well, a really long time, unfold. 

Please take a moment to SUBSCRIBE just below on the right sidebar ("SUBSCRIBE"). Just enter your email address and confirm your subscription. It's that easy! 

Hey, and what do you think of the new clean and fresh design? I kinda love it! While I am still working out a few kinks I really am pleased with the final results here.

I think I should also take a moment to say thank you to all of you who have followed along for a while and those who are new around here. I am looking forward to connecting and "meeting" each one of you! You make life rich! Truly, you do. 

Sure hope you're enjoying this wonderful Wednesday! 

All the best and cheers to this amazing future of ours, 

Thursday, January 22, 2015

INSPIRE | Cozy Eclectic Sitting Area with

Cozy Eclectic Sitting Area

How fun is this little sitting area using lots of natural linens, neutral colors and some fun vintage finds from

I started out with the vintage Moroccan rug that anchored the space and let everything flow from there. 

While I love neutrals, I am a sucker for batik and vintage patterns and fabrics so adding the indigo and the Peruvian striped pillows for a bit of  a color punch just seemed right to me. 

This sitting area has just about everything I love. From the subtle farmhouse touches to the clean, simple industrial touches I who wouldn't want to cozy up with a good friend or a good book and settle in for a while. 

This is just a small example of why I will always choose neutrals as a base for just about any room if I can. It's just so easy to go any direction or add color to spaces when done the right way! You can see more amazing rugs (and all sorts of other amazing items for your home) from Chairish on their site and start getting inspired to spruce up your own little space too! 

I sure hope you guys are having a fun filled Friday! We're looking forward to a great weekend here with family! 

Happy Friday, loves...

Friday, January 9, 2015

Curry Chicken Soup with Kale + Rice

Happy Friday, friends! 

I thought it would be fun to share a super quick recipe today as we creep into the weekend. 
I'm not sure about you guys but I have been making my fair share of soups and stews the past few weeks around here. The cold weather tends to encourage that. 

A couple of days ago I had the hankering for curry chicken. I also wanted kale and couscous. 

Wonderful combination of cravings, I know. 

I then had the bright idea that I could just turn those cravings into a one-pot dish. 

After sifting through internet search engines and Pinterest I didn't find one recipe that fit my craving, so I did what anyone would do-I made it up. 

Unfortunately, because I wasn't sure how this would turn out, I don't have a ton of amazing photos but it's pretty simple to make and I will detail as best as I can here. Are ya ready? Here we go...


1-2 lbs of boneless skinless chicken thighs
2 cups of Jasmine rice
1 bunch of fresh kale
2-3 tbs of fresh minced ginger
2 tbs garlic powder
1 tbs turmeric
1 tbs curry 
1 tbs cumin
Salt to taste
Maya Kaimal Kashmiri Curry Simmer Sauce (or another brand-can order this on AMAZON)
4-6 c organic chicken stock
1 can of coconut milk
2 tbs olive oil
1 large yellow onion, diced
Red Pepper Flakes or Chili Paste (optional)


Mix Curry, cumin, salt, turmeric and garlic powder together in a small bowl.
Apply as a dry rub to chicken making sure to coat every bit of the meat. 
Pour olive oil in stock pot and heat to medium.
Add diced onions. 
When pot is hot, add chicken and brown seasoned chicken in stock pot. 
Once meat is browned on both sides, pour in chicken stock.
Allow stock to come to a boil. 
Once boiling, add Jasmine rice and the simmer sauce and cover until rice is just tender. 
Add coconut milk and kale. 

At this point, you may want to add more cumin, or curry depending on how intense you want the flavor. Since I was making this for our whole family and our kids aren't fans of spicy (and neither am I) this was a more mild curry. If you'd like it a little more spicy, you can add red pepper flakes as well as chili paste.

Simmer, covered, for about 20-25 minutes. 

Once you have allowed your soup to simmer and all the ingredients have combined give it a taste. You may need to add more seasoning, salt, etc. to accommodate your taste. Don't be afraid to add if you need to! 


This made a lot for us and we've been chomping on it for a few days now! It's so yummy. 

I'd love to hear if you try it this weekend! 

Sure hope you guys have some fun things planned and we'll see you back here next week for some exciting announcements and fun changes just around the corner for RHI! 


Wednesday, December 17, 2014

INSPIRE | Homemade Holiday DIY Tour | DIY Wooden Chalkboard Ornament

Hey friends! 

Welcome back to another day of DIY for the Homemade Holiday DIY Tour! 

Each day this week so far I've shared a bit of handmade goodness as I decorate around our home for the holidays. 

Today, I am sharing our DIY wooden chalkboard ornaments. What I love about these is that they are great for the holidays but the fun with these cute little spheres is that the fun doesn't end with Christmas! These will make great gift tags or even fun garland for your home!  

I purchased most of my supplies from our local Ben Franklin Crafts Store but I am sure you could pick up most of this from Michael's or online at Save on Crafts as well! 

Let's begin the how-to, shall we?

Wooden Cuts in shape of your choice ( I used a total of 20 on our tree)
Chalkboard paint in color of your choice (I chose black)
Paint Brush
Soapstone or Chalk

1. Take your wooden cut and paintbrush and paint the chalkboard paint onto the piece. Don't worry if it doesn't look perfect. That's kinda the point of making it all yourself!

2. Once your paint has dried use your drill ( I used a 1/8" bit) to drill a hole in the top of the wood. This is where you will thread your twine to hang your ornament.

3. Once you've made the hole, cut a piece of twine about 8 inches long and thread it through the hole.

4. Use your chalk or soapstone to get a little artistic on each ornament. You can write a family name, draw some wreaths, or go beyond the holidays with your art!

5. Voila! You're done!

Now, THAT may be the easiest project yet!

I sure hope you all enjoyed today's project! Come back tomorrow for more fun as we close out with a full tour of our tree and little spaces in our home! 

Happiest of Wednesdays, loves! 

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

INSPIRE | Homemade Holidays DIY Tour | DIY Tassel Yarn Garland + Card Holder

Happy Tuesday, friends! How's your day so far? Hope it's been amazing! 

Today, we're talking trim and if you know me, you know I love adding details to finished products. Although, I am not sure that I ever have a 'finished' project. All of you creatives out there know exactly what I mean. 

Anyhow, if you were here yesterday then you saw the easy DIY Fresh Green wreath that I finished for our front entry. It was so easy, quick and fun to do and I am pretty sure that I am officially a convert to making my own for every season. If you missed that you can see more here and hopefully be inspired to make your own! 

This year I wanted a bit more of a simplistic look for our home without a lot of fuss. I also knew that handmade would be the way I would go to achieve that look so when I was shopping around at Michael's with a crafty pal of mine and saw yarn, I knew that I'd be using it for a couple of DIY decor items this year for our place. 

I finally decided on tassels and yarn ball ornaments for the tree which I will be sharing later in the week!

But for now, the YARN TASSEL GARLAND...

1 roll of yarn (your choice of color)

1. Decide where you'll be using your garland, that will determine the length of your line. I am using mine to display our Christmas cards so I cut my string at about 3ft. This was long enough to go across the cabinet or hang down the banister of our staircase as well. Once you have one string trimmed (again, I cut mine to 3ft.) cut a small piece of cardboard into a rectangle to use to wind your string around in a cirucular motion as you see below. 

2. Once you have wound your yarn around the board, trim the bottom while holding the yarn and board in place. 

3. After trimming, lay your trimmed yarn bunch flat and release from the board.  

4. Trim another small piece of yarn (about 6 inches) and thread underneath the bunch. 

5. Tie the piece you just cut into a knot. this will act as the thread you will use to attach to from the top to your longer strand for your garland. 

6. Flip one side over the other and make the sides meet one another. It should look like step 6 below. 

7. Clip another piece of yarn and wind it around the top of the tassel. This will form your tassel into it's actual tassel shape. 

8. Trim the bottom of the tassel so that it's even on the bottom. 

9. You're done! 
10. Repeat until you have as many as you'd like! 

I've moved ours all over the place and this little project is so easy, I am sure I will continue making them. What I love about a lot of the projects I am sharing this week is that you can use them past the Christmas season and enjoy them all year long! What's not fun about that?

I used the first string I made on our antique catalog cabinet to begin displaying Christmas cards from friends and family. 

And after the holidays, you can pretty much hand them anywhere you'd like! 
Aren't they fun? 

Come back tomorrow for more Homemade Holiday DIY! 
TUESDAY | Yarn Tassel Holiday Card Holder
WEDNESDAY | DIY Painted Wooden Ornament
THURSDAY | DIY Yarn Ball Ornaments
FRIDAY | DIY Woodland Inspired Tabletop Vignette
SATURDAY | DIY Tree Quote Cards


Favorite Things from Mark and Graham and a Party!

Happy Tuesday, loves!

I wanted to hop over this morning and let you know about a sweet deal through Mark and Graham! 
I love this company and all the wonderful items they offer in every price range. 
There is literally something for everyone whether you're looking to spend a little or plan to get something unique for that special someone on in your life. 

For those of you who haven't heard of M+G, it's the newest personalized gifting brand from Williams-Sonoma and Pottery Barn. They specialize in unique and high quality accessories, leather goods, hand bags, jewelry, home decor and monogram gifts for both men and women! 

While there are no retail locations, they do have boast over 50 authorized M+G Founding Merchants in addition to their online sells. 

Shop now through December 21st and you can STILL get some goodies here by Christmas! Can you believe that? 

Not only that but you'll also get:
FREE personalization and gift wrap with all Mark and Graham purchases. Every time. 

FREE shipping

Here are a few of my faves and a special offer just for Restoration House readers! 

This is copper mule is one of my faves from M+G. I like it because it looks a bit more like a Stein and is a bit larger than most copper mules on the market which means you can add a lot beverage than normal for longer sipping times! 

Then, there are all of the amazing LINEN cocktail and dinner napkins that they offer. These are my all-time fave. You guys...I wish you could touch and feel them. The quality of these products are amazing which is no surprise coming from Williams-Sonoma. These napkins (including the dinner napkins) are completely customizable (for free) come in sets of 4 and 6. 

So, are you ready to start shopping? My friend Tiffany, who is a M+G Founding Merchant, has everything all set up for you to check the last few things off of your Christmas lists!

In order to start shopping visit this link:
Enter this ID:  220102398756
Then, enter this password: WS9648238
Be sure to click on the "START SHOPPING box on the next screen and you will notice the cost of shopping will have been deducted at check out! 

And just to make this fun, any rewards I receive from this party I'll be using to have a fun Mark and Graham giveaway for all of you! So fun! 

Remember, you can shop now through December 21st and still receive by Christmas! You really just can't beat that! 

Okay, loves...have fun shopping and come back later for day two of our Homemade Holiday Tour! If you missed yesterday you can see more here


Monday, December 15, 2014

INSPIRE | Homemade Home Tour{ish} Week and a DIY Fresh Wreath How-To

Okay, so maybe "home tour" is not exactly what we'll be doing around here this week so I guess I should clarify and let you in on what's happening here all week long! 

Each day I will share some holiday projects I've done to make our home a little more festive for the season. I'd love to say that I went handmade this year because I am just SO passionate about crafting and adding a special touch to hour home. I mean, I am but the real reason is just because I honestly have purchased new ornaments each year to add to our old ones and this year I just wanted fresh, new and different without spending too much. So, in a sense, it was a bit of a challenge from me.

Today, I am sharing the easiest DIY wreath tutorial on the planet. I didn't get to take a ton of photos of the step-by-step of this project but I will do my best to provide detailed instructions with the images I do have to make it as easy as possible for you to follow. I promise you can do it! Ready? Let's start!

1 circular or square wire wreath frame
A few bundles of your choice of gathered or purchased greenery
Pruning Shears
Floral Wire
Floral Tape (optional)

1. Gather your greenery into small bundles and trim to about 6-10 inches in length. I gathered 3-4 different types of greenery and made small arrangements if you will. All together, I ended up with about 9 smaller bundles.

2. Take each bundle and use your floral wire and bind at the end by wrapping around to secure each bundle together.

3. Once you have all of your bundles wrapped using your wire, you can begin to assemble the wreath by placing each bundle into the wire. I found that I had to play around with this quite a bit until I achieved the desired look I was going for. Continue inserting your bundles around the frame.

4. Once you have inserted your bundles, take some of the extra foliage you have left over and begin to fill in the empty spaces. You can use your floral wire to secure these extra pieces into place as well.

This is what my finished wreath looks like...

For years now, I have purchased fresh wreaths from Trader Joe's or local nurseries. I would say I am pretty proud of myself for this first-time wreath and can't wait to make more throughout the year. 

I love the way the pepper berries give it just the right subtle pop of color. While I really didn't do anything with traditional Christmas colors this year, I couldn't resist this berries guessed it, Trader Joe's last week. Aren't they so cute? 

And here is the final look at our front entry. It's so perfectly imperfect and I love it that way! 

And because I have such a love of all things floral you know I picked up more than I needed to make this wreath. In my own defense, I had it planned out to make a ton of these things and well, reality struck. After making this, I still had half a bucket full of goodies. So...that turned into this...

It feels like I literally threw these in the pots. And, well...I kinda did. These pots have sat empty for most of the season since the summer honestly and I orginally wanted to put some cedar trees in them but couldn't bring myself to do it. I knew I wanted something a little different so this is what I ended up with. What do you think? 

I do love the organic look of it all and the burgundy sprigs scattered on the sides. Talk about free form arranging. 

Anyhow, I sure hope you enjoyed a little bit of my homemade today...from our home to yours. Come back tomorrow for more as we go inside of our place to see what else I've been up to for the holidays! 

And here's what you can look forward to all week! See you lovelies tomorrow and hope you enjoyed this quick how-to! 

MONDAY |  DIY Fresh Wreath
TUESDAY | Yarn Tassel Holiday Card Holder
WEDNESDAY | DIY Painted Wooden Ornament
THURSDAY | DIY Yarn Ball Ornaments
FRIDAY | DIY Woodland Inspired Tabletop Vignette
SATURDAY | DIY Tree Quote Cards


Friday, December 12, 2014

The Weekend and a Handmade Week

                                                            Happy Friday friends! 

It's been over a week since I last posted but I promise there's good reason for it. 

Around our home, the holidays are always crazy. 

Beginning with Thanksgiving, we have four birthdays within a 5 week span of time. When you add the holiday shenanigans in there, it's enough to make anyone's head spin. 

I always tell my hubby that we are gonna be prepared and ready for this season each year but it's yet to happen so most of the time with all of the birthday and holiday planning I barely come up for air. 

I didn't participate in any holiday home tours with other bloggers this year or any special blog collaborations for Christmas but I do have some fun things planned here on the blog next week to share with you and I hope you'll plan to stop by for some holiday inspiration to include how I'm trying my hand at HANDmade this year for most of our decor and ornaments. 

Every year I typically shop for new ornaments to add to previously purchased. This year I wanted to do something different but keep it fresh and save some cash. SO, I decided to just use what I already had laying around to create a simple, yet memorable Christmas for me and the fam. 

Here's a sneak peek at what's ahead...

Yep, that's'll have to come back next week to see more. 

In the meantime, be sure to check out and follow my Instagram feed here. 
Or, for holiday inspiration throughout the weekend follow me on Pinterest here. 

Happiest of Fridays to each of you! 


Wednesday, November 26, 2014

#rhithebeautyinside | Lindsay's Story

Today, we have Lindsay from Fearless Experiment sharing her story of freedom with you. Her story is one of victory and I know you will walk away encouraged and empowered to walk this walk of faith with victory! Enjoy, loves!

Set Free …

“Good from far, but far from good,” I don’t know how many times in my 35 years I’ve heard a voice whisper that line in my ear when I look into the mirror, when I finish a project or just have a really great day.

That one line has robbed me of so much joy. That one line has robbed me of confidence, of every feeling good enough and most of all, it’s robbed me from intimacy with my God.

When Jesus was in the desert, and Satan was having a go at Him… His identity as the Son of God was the first thing the enemy tried to make Him question. “If you really are the son of God…” because when we live in a constant state of not knowing who we are, we can never really live the life we were designed to live.

I started making myself throw up in the third grade. I can’t remember a time in my life when I ever didn’t think I was a fat, beastly monster. Plagued with depression and suicidal thoughts, the enemy made a cozy home for himself in my mind, reminding me daily that I was forgettable, ugly and really not worth anyone’s love.

After years of therapy and anti-depressants the physical portion of my decade long eating disorder was cured almost instantly. When I was 19 I flew to Santiago, Chile and started serving in a soup kitchen for children in the inner city  of the inner city.  The extreme conviction of throwing up a meal when the kids I knew, loved and played with daily were going without changed me. Unfortunately the hold the life stealing voices had over me remained… stronger and louder than ever. If the enemy couldn’t destroy me through bulimia, he would wage a different war, one drenched with insecurity and bondage and so much anger.

We were created for freedom. Galatians says it is for freedom that we’ve been set free.  But we have to know who we are to experience that freedom.  1 Peter says we are a royal priesthood… but a royal priest doesn’t live in the slavery of the lies whispered by an accuser who wants nothing more than to see us dead.

I knew I wanted to be free, but I didn’t know how. I knew I wanted to own who Jesus said I was, but somewhere deep inside I was honestly afraid that if I let go, if I told that dark voice I didn’t actually believe his words… I would be wrong. What if God didn’t actually have that kind of love and redemption for me?

A couple of years ago I had some strong women speak into my life.  My friend Lu told me God had given her a word for me; He said I had a “prowess for leadership.” The fact that He had a word meant just for me, wrecked me and shattered so many of the lies I had believed about myself and who I was. A few weeks later while reading in Isaiah I heard God say, these words are for you and wept as I read that I was His delight.

The thing with slavery and strapping on the lies we were never meant to wear is that is feels safer sometimes than actually daring to believe the truth of what God has for us. It took me too long to own the reality of God’s words, so many encounters with Him missed, so much love unclaimed because I chose to believe a voice of lies.  I am convinced it’s taken its toll on many of you too.  In Numbers 13 and 14 The Israelites were looking for someone to lead them back to Egypt (and to slavery) because there were giants and fortified cities in the land God had promised them. They decided to cling to the slavery they knew rather than to believe in the promise God had given them. They were RIGHT THERE… they had lived His miracles, they had seen him work. Their story was full of power and victory, but they chose to believe the lie.

What lies have kept you clinging to the “safety” of slavery? What would happen if you could actually see the miracles God has done in your life? How would that change the way you see yourself and experience God?

Today is the day to stand up and take ownership of what has already been given to you. You are not a helpless, weak little princess, and you are definitely not a slave. YOU ARE A DAUGHTER OF THE KING. You are His delight, His powerful warrior; built to shatter lies, to heal the sick and to set captives free. He has uniquely designed you…YOU… and me… to walk in power and freedom. Today if you’re struggling with believing the lies… pray this with me:

“I am a daughter of the KING, I NO LONGER partner with the lies of the great accuser. In the name of Jesus I break off anything that has been spoken over me that is not full of life, God’s power or love. The enemy HAS NO POWER OVER ME… I am FREE.”

You are more than your past and the words that have been spoken over you. You are more than your weight, your job or your marital status. Break-up with the lies today. We can let our stories own and define us, or we can use them as a powerful weapon, a symbol of victory and a mandate to free others.  What’s it gunna be?

You can continue this journey with Lindsay on her blog here or follow her on Instagram

And that, my loves, is a challenge to us all. Let's choose to begin accepting the freedom that Christ has given us through the sacrifice of His life. It's where true adventure begins! 

I sure hope you all have some fun things planned for Thanksgiving tomorrow and filling your tummies with lots of good food and your time with lots of memories! Happy Wednesday! 


Monday, November 24, 2014

#rhithebeautyinside | Bre's Story

Hi Friends! How was your weekend? I sure hope it was amazing!
 We are nearing the end of this series and today we are sitting down with Bre from Rooms for Rent to hear a firsthand account of how God continues to turn beauty into ashes in her life. Grab a cup of coffee or tea and enjoy this encouraging story! 

Hello!! I'm Bre, and I blog over at rooms FOR rent! I am passionate about interior design, and love all things decor, but I'm even more passionate about others being set free by God's saving grace. Breathing that freedom in, walking in that freedom, and ultimately serving God in that freedom. Perhaps it's because I've experienced that freedom time and time again in my own life, that I'm so passionately for others to experience it too!

I've been in church my whole life, however that doesn't mean that I've had it easy or a perfect life by any means. I first experienced God's saving freedom when I was 13 and my family was broken apart by divorce. I had every reason in the book to turn my back on God then, but He showed up in such a powerful way and saved me from going down a very destructive path. Fast forward a few years, I started dating my now husband, and we have been happily married with 2 little kids for almost 10 years. I had always dreamed of becoming an interior decorator, it was something I enjoyed doing early on. I think I was the only 12 yr. old who would create vignettes in her room out of all my friends. I would rearrange my displays just for fun, and turn any flat surface into a beautifully decorated canvas. I would cover my walls in giant collages of cut outs from magazines and photos of me and my friends. There wasn't an ounce of wall left to be seen, and it all inspired me. It wasn't until we had settled into our first house, and after the birth of our 2nd child that the passion to decorate started bubbling up again. I had always decorated our apartments nicely, and thankfully had the freedom to paint in both of them, but this was different. This time we owned and I was bound to put my mark on it. I started my blog so I could document all the changes along the way.

About 9 months after I started my blog, I began to feel my heart strings tugged again to start exploring becoming an interior decorator. I had my hands full with two babies eighteen months apart, a new home I hadn't even scratched the surface on all my plans for yet, and still I had this undeniable urge to start my own business. You see though, I had been here before. Everytime I got this close, I came up with an excuse as to why not, and talked myself out of it. I would either tell myself I don't have the time to take the classes, or "I never went to school for that, so who would want to hire me anyways"? Then I started having kids, and put all my energy and focus into that. My husband was so supportive along the way. Seeing my desire to create and decorate, he always encouraged me, or put up with it when I was trying something new out. This time was different though, this time I had seen others, who maybe hadn't been to school, and they were doing it. I had done enough decorating for family members and friends and finally been asked one to many times when I was going to finally starting doing this as a business. Something was still holding me back, and it was more than just doubt. I wasn't afraid of failing, this went much, much deeper than that.

Have you heard of Holley Gerth? She is an amazing christian author, and talk about a women who is obedient to doing what God calls her to do. She has such a gift for expressing God's heart towards us, and has written many books. She wrote a devotional called "God's Heart for You" and it was at the end of this devotional that I experienced God's freedom in my life once again. Of course it was in the very last chapter of this devotional when God's truth spoke over me, and I realized I had been believing a lie for the past 18 years. I read the verse "Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." Philippians 1:6. I read that scripture and instantly I was taken back. It touched me to my core, but then I smirked. And instantly I asked the God to forgive me for doubting His word, and asked him to show me where that came from.

He took me back to when I was in elementary school, and I over heard a conversation between my 5th grade teacher, my mother and my rivals mother. Now there was no issue, it was friendly conversation. But you all know what I mean. There was that one girl who no matter what you did, she did it better. She was a better student, a better athlete, got voted for all of the superlatives. She was just your all around A+ student, star athlete, the most popular. She was everywhere in all my classes, all the sports I played, she always got the positions I would try out for. I felt like I lived in her shadow. Well one day, in casual conversation, my mother was talking to my teacher about how well of a student I was, boasting, like any mother does. I remember smiling with confidence, and then the other girls mother said "oh that's nice, but it just comes naturally to Susie(fake name), she's just better at everything" And looks at our teacher for affirmation. Instant defeat I felt, I wanted to hide behind my mothers legs and cry. I don't even think they knew I was listening. But it was that very moment that I took on the lie that "I was not good enough". I carried it with me through the rest of my school years, throughout every sport I played. Anything I put my hands to, I never put forth full effort because deep down inside I always believed I wasn't "GOOD ENOUGH"?!

I broke when God revealed that to me. That in my heart all these years, despite being saved, and doing many great things He had lead me to, I carried this around everywhere I went. It might as well been tattooed on my forehead. Oh but I hid it well. I concealed it so good I wasn't even aware it still existed. I asked God instantly to heal that part of me that had been broken so long ago, and allowed Him to speak truth over me. No longer was I believing this lie anymore. No longer was I doubting myself anymore. I used to shrug off compliments or words of affirmation, thinking I was never good enough to amount to what people were seeing. You can imagine the deep sigh of relief I felt after that sob session of realization. But it was truly releasing those lies to God and asking Him to show me how He sees me. The purpose He created me for. My own divine gifts. At the end of each chapter in Holly's devotional she closes with the most heartfelt of statements. True affirmation for the area that God is speaking to you on in that chapter. I want to share that chapter's statement with you today, and allow His truth to wash over you!

You are God's Masterpiece -
started in His heart, formed by His hands,
and offered as a gift to the world.
Much more than a work in progress ...
you're His good work.
What He started in you
will gloriously unfold for a lifetime
and be completed in heaven.
He sees beauty in you
because you are made in His image
and redeemed by His love.
It's true.
God says you are ...
created, chosen, cherished, celebrated
His forever.

~Holly Gerth

I shared this with my husband later that day. He prayed with me, affirmed in me, and encouraged me to stop holding back, and to walk out in all that God had called me to be. I now felt purpose. Like I was seeing things clearly for the first time. No longer did I brush things off as wishful thinking. We came up with a business name, and for the past 3 years I have been "Inspiring others to Love the Space the Live in". We also build custom furniture, and create custom decor pieces as well. I still write my blog, and share most often on Instagram my interior design. I wear many hats, I am a wife, a mother, a sister, a daughter, a friend, an interior decorator, But most importantly I am His. And I am walking in His freedom, creating by His grace, and I want you to experience that freedom too!

Bre, you have so eloquently captured the essence of this series and the heart behind it. You are beautiful. You are unique. You have purpose. Your life has meaning. You are a gift. All of you. 

What lies have we chosen to believe over the years? What is stopping you today from stepping boldly into your calling and sharing your gift with the world? You have something to give that only you can uniquely give. It's time to say yes to a big, wide open life filled with adventure and fulfillment. 

My prayer for each and every one of you this week is that you will begin to ask the hard questions as Bre did. That you will allow God to go into those broken places, no matter how big or small you may think they are, and heal them. To do a work in you so that you may begin to do an amazing work on this Earth, as you He intended for you, for His glory. That you begin to dream again. That you will flourish where you are and that your heart once again sings and laughs and dances and praises. That you experience freedom like no other. 

I love you. He loves you more. 

Friday, November 21, 2014

Simple Holiday Vignette | Thrift Store Challenge

Hey Guys! If you're hopping over from one of the lovely blog of all the amazing ladies participating in this Thrift Store Challenge, thanks so much for stopping by. Have you all been SO inspired by all the talent and creativity in this challenge? I sure have! Anyhow, when Alice of Thoughts from Alice asked me to join in on this I wasn't sure exactly what I would do. Our home is a bit intersting right now and we are still unpacking boxes from our move so decorating isn't exactly what I am doing weekly all know I love it. And, I could NOT pass up an opportunity to shop our local thrift stores and inspire each and very one of you to do the same this holiday season when considering decor for your home. 

We all know, it doesn't have to be expensive to be beautiful. This is what I loved about this challenge. We couldn't spend more than $25 and while we didn't have to use only thrifted in our vignettes, we did have to include a thrifted item in the display. 

So, without further ado, here's a bit of inspiration for you! 

Each part of this vignette was either purchased from a thrift of antique shop. Let's focus on the plates in this pic. If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I love, love, love my vintage and antique plates! I display them any chance I get and this opportunity was no different. 

The vintage leatherbound books I found at a local Goodwill as well as the vintage suitcase and the antlers are from my local favorite antique shop, Haystack Antiques. If you're in the Seattle area, it's a must visit. Seriously, you WILL NOT be disappointed! 

Of course, I took a step right outside our back patio to find all the cedar and berries. It's one of the things I absolutely love about living in the Northwest. 

And if you know me, you also know I don't hang a thing on the wall without including antlers. I won't say I am addicted to them or that I hoard them on the grounds that I may incriminate myself but...well, I do love them. 

These are some of favorite books and my go-to for vignettes when I need to add a little extra height. 

Total cost to put this fun little vignette together? Well, practically free since I went through my pile and pulled all of the my thrifted items for this. I did purchase one additional plate to add to my collection. That was 1.99. Crazy, I know. 

I sure hope you guys enjoyed that little treat! Join me in the next couple of weeks as we really deck the halls around here and have some fun spreading the Christmas cheer after Thanksgiving! 

Please be sure to hop around and be inspired by these other amazing gals! 

Happy Friday, friends!

Glam Christmas Throw Pillows by Thoughts from Alice

A Deerly Beloved Thrift Store Vignette by Have a Daily Cup of Mrs. Olson

Christmas Cloche by Craftberry Bush

A Vintage Mantel for Winter by Finding Silver Pennies

Thrifty DIY Part One: Faux Fur Throw Rug by Creating Vintage Charm

DIY Holiday Walling Hanging by House of Hipsters

Christmas Decor from Thrifty Find by Town and Country Living

The Trellis Tree by Cozy Little House

DIY Centerpiece Tray by Cherished Bliss

Rustic Christmas Tree by Delineate Your Dwelling

DIY Crocks by So Much Better With Age

Thrift Store Christmas Decor Challenge by BrocanteuseRose

Go ahead and pin away!

And this one too! 


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